The frustration that the OP's describing is a rite of passage that we've all dealt with, but from my own experience I can tell you that when I got "ganged" like he described, it was almost ALWAYS my own fault. Sure, if you're looking for a fair fight, go to the DA. But if you appreciate a REAL fight, which in no way means FAIR, then suck it up, learn from your mistakes, and work at becoming one of those "super pilots" yourself. Practice and repetition WILL get you there. Whining won't.