Based on the plane I am flying which is either : P38J, 109K4, or Ki84 I am fighting to whatever will make the fight somewhat fun.
If I know I am fighting a newer guy I will attempt to make it interesting for myself and at least a learning experience for the person I am fighting, not just completely smack him into the ground. This may involve me giving up my six a few times or just simply not firing when I am behind him but instead disengaging and allowing him to re-merge. I don't know why but beating easier people just isn't fun anymore, it is almost like vulching a field. I don't understand the enjoyment people get out of vulching unless they are capping a field. Usually after the fight, if I won or lost, I will give the other pilot tips. It is actually how I met a few of the guys in my squad now.
Now if the pilot is better than me or as good as me I am not holding back

I already suck so giving myself to someone who is just as good is not going to happen. I usually lose anyways cause I get impatient or I simply forget what to do in a certain situation.
The game is about making fun for yourself not listening to how others think you should fight.
Earlier today I logged in, for the first time in maybe a week and a half. I go to the fight between 231Knights-232Rooks...I sit in the tower and I see 3 NIKI's at 25k a Brewster at 20k a few spits a few high ponies. I try to up from the field (My joystick is already weak sauce so I didn't expect to live) but a 190 flies past at least 4 guys from 15k just to vulch my P38. I got a laugh out of it. I upped again, and flew towards the town as a P51 dives on me, I reverse him and a Yak isn't too far behind so I pull off. Yak one ping PW's me so I bail. I up from a near field to get altitude. When I arrive at 231 again I engage 3 ponies in a 3 v 1. . .They were tough AT FIRST, then they got impatient and all ended up coming at the same angle and easily reversible. 2 of them ran off while I fought one last one. I killed him, then a Pony returns and dives on me. I evade and evade and evade and I guess he gets bored so he eventually tried to slow down, I reversed him he ran to the deck. I was aware there were a lot of high enemies around I just didn't care lol I chased him. A pony and Me410 dives on me I break and as I break the pony turns around and comes back to me, I laugh because I expected it. So here I am fighting yet another 3 v 1 in a P38J v 2 Ponies and a Me410. A spit16 then dives into me as I get on the initial P51 and of course the P51 runs AGAIN. . .The spit16 saddles me, I reversed him once but couldn't stick with his turn, he turned into me and I died. I didn't get mad, just simply laughed.
It's the game you pay for really and I used to tell people how to fly the game ALL the time. Then DrBone yelled at me for whining and told me there isn't anything I can do about it and that its always been like this and I know that. He made a lot of sense, because it has always been like this. Well lately it has and by lately I mean since 2011.