Heya Brooke and a Happy New Year

As I mentioned before, there still could be a place in online play, that would not interfere with what you prefer to do. I don't personally think that engaging fleets with auto puffy ack shooting to the high heavens is my cup of tea either, but it draws a crowd and some pretty darn good action.
Limiting where you could find the AI aircraft, should allow you the option to fight with other online players exclusively, while providing a role for AI to entertain others at lower populated times or maybe even newer subscribers needing the experience, before heading off to become cannon fodder for the chest thumping uber leet pilots.
Country balance wouldn't work, unless the lower populated countries had more
AI flights protecting strats, soley. <<<< In that case alone there would be a pretty good argument for it (thanks for whoever thought that one up). In this case, if you don't want to fight AI then stay away from enemy strats.