Bushmills, read this carefully....
One of the best things about this game is that everyone has access to the same exact planes, and it's all about a pilot's skill.
No offense, but you will find this is why many of us play this game... No power ups, no pay more to get better planes, nothing but skill. If someone doesn't like that aspect of the game, then they can quit if they want to. No trophies for participation in AH, and I (and many others) like it that way...
That said, if you want some help, let me know. I will be glad to show you a trick or two...