In short; record, revise, re-up, relax, restrain. That's the 5 R's of Aces High.
Emotional restraint?
You do realise you can't post on the forum anymore because your post count is presently exactly 109

Nr, if you want to keep people in there against you on 1v1, try giving them some advice. I would have appreciated your insight along with getting shot down consistently.
You left after three matches without saying a word and only a System salute.
If the Match Arena is just there to club the other guy, are you really surprised when the seals don't show up?

You raise a poignant question. No I'm not surprised. I'm not surprised when the MA vets don't show up either.
It won't make any difference imho. I've tried all those things and more in abundance and to no avail. The prevailing / remaining culture is quite simple and elemental and finally clear. Players pay their $15 for a months worth of win and if they can't get it sharpish they'll move elsewhere, perhaps to the MA or a multi-squad event or another game.
So I have decided to dedicate the remaining days of AH flying my favourite plane as hard as I can in MPA, with all the hard-earned and self-taught knowledge and technique I gathered in my time here. Rather be a hard data point representing the old days where you did things simply because they were hard and challenging.
Like a small fish, trapped in a slowly evaporating pond of what was once a large, diverse and magnificent lake. In a way the game is leaving me rather than the other way around. It's a bit sad but I guess my little puddle is just a bit closer to the sun than US primetime.