I got rid of nose bounce by scaling the first few bars of my elevator scaling down to almost nothing, same with my rudders. What I discovered when I tweaked it was if you need to do that, ramp up your scaling to full as soon as possible, otherwise you get bad behavior at the other end. I had my scaling badly messed up for years which explained why I had so much trouble riding the edge of stall at low speed. Since I changed it it's gotten much better for me, but I haven't put in the time to get really smooth with it yet.
As far as plane choice, for me it makes it a lot easier to understand other planes' capabilities by flying them versus flying against them. YMMV.
Wiley.