Why do I rarely get abuse in game?
There was guy last month who was accusing me of using cheating software, I squelched him

(my score is poo so he was just drunk or in a bad mood)
It takes me 5 mins to go into Services to close down programs before I log in, if I have a stalker in game I will squelch them, if I forget and he starts wittering it’s a nice reminder he is on and I block him.
I would rather know someone’s character in game from their behaviour so I can set my session accordingly.