No it is not because if reporting something actually had some consequences people would not feel so comfortable rage pming people all the time. They should have no opportunity to contact me with out me approving or allowing it. Just kill the feature and we solve the problem for eveyone!
Understood. Why should you even have to listen to that in the first place? I suppose it's possible to insert a step in the PM process - "Oldman has sent you a pm, do you wish to accept?"
We have that with the ride-along feature.
But I doubt that would solve the problem. If you've just killed, say, Oldman (and who hasn't?) and you get an "Oldman has sent you a pm, do you wish to accept?", you might reasonably assume that the pm says "Congrats Dougie!" and click on the "yes" button to bathe in glory.
- oldman (and only wieners would send a nasty message)