It is easy to spot racist, they always make everything about race. No matter how trivial or simple, they always compare everything to race and try to find a way it bothers them.
Is that really your definition of
racist?Try this instead:
rac·ism
prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against a person or people on the basis of their membership in a particular racial or ethnic group, typically one that is a minority or marginalized.
the belief that different races possess distinct characteristics, abilities, or qualities, especially so as to distinguish them as inferior or superior to one another.
It is a form of prejudice
a liking or dislike for one rather than another especially without good reason She has a prejudice against department stores. 2 : a feeling of unfair dislike directed against an individual or a group because of some characteristic (as race or religion) 3 : injury or damage to a person's rights.
And no ... recognizing racism for what it is doesn't make me the racist. Attempting such reasoning is spurious at best.