Exactly.
First 85% of what people call a HO is not a HO. It is a low aspect front quarter show where I got my gun solution before they could complete pulling lead. Usually a 1-Circle. That is THE definition of winning a 1-Circle fight. Even if you beat them to pull lead by 1/2 degree.
Second, HO is perfectly valid in any number of situations.
Heavier armored better guns than opponent? Why not. Jug against a Zero? If they are dumb enough to accept the HO (AND IT ALWAYS TAKES TWO IN AGREEMENT OR ONE NOT PAYING ATTENTION), then that is on them. Many a Navy pilot lit up a zero that way.
Out numbered? If I am getting ganged 3:1 and one accepts a HO, he is gonna get it. Worse case, that is even odds. Better than 3:1 against.
Damaged, not much longer to live? Sure. You bet.
Or, if I just feel like it.
Because most aren't HO's anyway, and if they are, it takes two to agree or one not paying attention. Either way if it's to my advantage for any reason, I will.
Most only whine about the HO's they accepted or initiated and then lost.