Excuse me, but the fetus that gets removed during abortion can not kick or do much anything yet because it's basically just a lump of protein. There are certain limits on how old the pregnancy can be when you perform the abortion.
I have a son who gave us some trouble during the first third of the pregnancy. We were running to the hospital because my wife had spontanious bleeding.. From the ultrasounds we could see the fetus is alive and well. However even that being my own child, I could not see him as a person yet. More like a mass of protein with some resemblance of human parts, head, hands, legs and eyes which were not properly developed yet. Did you know that a fish fetus and a human fetus look almost exactly the same during the first third of the pregnancy? They both have tails and everything..
In many cases the abortion is a blessing to both child and the mother. The mother may have been raped and got pregnant in the progress.. Do you think the mother wants to have the baby?
The mother may be 17 and having unfinished school.. You think the baby and the mother would have a good future if she gave birth then? Forcing an unwanted child in the world does nobody any good. It probably just guarantees the kid a miserable life in some foster home or institution - or a very poor home.
The mother may have become pregnant despite the use of protection, you think it's better to have that unplanned child instead of a quick chemical abortion (the remorse pill) within the next week?
The fetus may be found genetically defective during pregnancy, would you want your wife to bear and give birth to a child with two heads or no brain at all? The most horrible thing is that often the ones who do so, get emotionally attached to the brainless living dead and nurture the horribly disabled child untill the unevitable bitter end. Both the child and the parents suffer.
Overpopulation is the biggest single problem of the planet at the moment. The catholic religion is not helping that much by banning all contraceptives - as if we were still living in 10 a.d. when the christians felt the need to be populated as much as possible. Now the religious groups want to ban the abortions, some of which were a direct cause of their own ban of contraceptives. Many kids feel so ashamed about the whole issue that they prefer to have sex unprotected instead of telling their family doctor or going to the shop to buy some.
The fact is that sexually mature humans tend to have sex without caring about the consequences. If the foolishness results in an unwanted pregnancy, it's by all means better to stop the pregnancy on its path instead of bringing yet another problem child to the world. A child that is not needed or wanted on this planet.
Those women who are crying after their aborted babies are probably ones that couldn't get any children after that.. Abortion includes a risk of losing your fertility. It also shows how hard it is for any woman to abort her baby. It's a very tough decision and the women won't go through it unless it's absolutely necessary.
