Chances are your BBS privileges were revoked, not your game privileges. If so, I'd take it as a warning.
Look, you kicked the door in, demanded someone give you something you could get yourself, then became surly about it when your file didn't arrive in your mail as fast as you thought it should. What'd you expect to happen?
If you'd been polite you probably would have had three or four fellows step up and either mail you the file or tell you how to solve your problems. I realize you cannot really call from Ireland for tech support, but e-mail to HTC would have been answered soon enough and they would have helped. I know, every time I ever asked for help the response was quick. That experience is shared by a great many other players who grace this sim.
So, lighten up and help will come your way. Continue as you have, and, well...