Generally, speaking, if you leave the Israelis alone, they leave you alone.
1948: UN gives Israel statehood. Less than 24 hours later, the regular armies of Egypt, Jordan, Syria, Lebanon and Iraq invaded the country. Blame Israel? Nope.
1956: In contradiction to the UN Security Council resolution of 1 September 1951, Israeli and Israel-bound shipping was prevented from passing through the Suez Canal; the blockade of the Straits of Tiran was tightened; incursions into Israel of terrorist squads from neighboring Arab countries for murder and sabotage occurred with increasing frequency; and the Sinai peninsula was gradually converted into a huge Egyptian military base.
Upon the signing of a military alliance by Egypt, Syria and Jordan (October 1956) Israel attacked to ensure their own survival. In eight days they captured the Gaza Strip and the entire Sinai peninsula, halting 10 miles (16 km.) east of the Suez Canal.
A UN decision to station a UN Emergency Force (UNEF) along the Egypt-Israel border and Egyptian assurances of free navigation in the Gulf of Eilat led Israel to agree to withdraw in stages (November 1956 - March 1957). The Straits of Tiran were opened, enabling trade and oil imports from the Persian Gulf.
Blame Israel? Nope. If Egypt had followed the UN resolution it wouldn't have happened.
1967: Arab terrorist raids across the Egyptian and Jordanian borders, persistent Syrian artillery bombardment of agricultural settlements in northern Galilee and massive military build-ups by the neighboring Arab states. Egypt moved troops into the Sinai desert (May 1967), ordered the UN peacekeeping forces (deployed since 1957) out of the area, reimposed the blockade of the Straits of Tiran and entered into a military alliance with Jordan.
Egypt had violated the arrangements agreed upon following the 1956 Sinai Campaign, Israel launched a preemptive strike against Egypt in the south, followed by a counterattack against Jordan in the east and the routing of Syrian forces entrenched on the Golan Heights in the north.
Blame Israel? Nope. If Egypt had followed the UN peace agreement it wouldn't have happened.
1973: Three years of relative calm were shattered when Egypt and Syria launched a coordinated surprise assault against Israel (6 October 1973), with the Egyptian army crossing the Suez Canal and Syrian troops penetrating the Golan Heights.
Blame Israel? Nope. If... well, you get the idea, right?
What's the common denominator? It's not Israeli agression... it's the failure of the various Arab nations to abide by UN resolutions and agreements.
I'm not presently a supporter of Israeli action. They themselves have now gone "over the line" and are in violation of UN resolutions and agreements. In short, they have become indistinguishable from their enemies. But the UN doesn't have the balls to put International Peacekeepers between the Palestinians and the Israelis.
Anyway, this whole sad story has it's roots in the failure of the Arabs to abide by the UN decision on Israel's statehood. I can see where the Israelis.. particularly after what happened in WW2... felt they needed their own state. They got it from the UN. The Arabs, with the exception of Egypt and Jordan, have never accepted that.
It appears to me that the Israelis react to percieved threats to their security immediately and with great force. One would think that the various Arab nations would have this figured out by now and would just leave those crazy bastiges alone.
I have no doubt that Palestinians WOULD have their own state by now if Arafat hadn't bailed out of the last negotiations for statehood before this latest intifada started. (during the Clinton admin.)
Poking the Israelis in the eye with the "violence stick" has been repeatedly proven to be an extremely stupid idea, yet the Arabs, like moths to a flame, seem drawn to repeat the same mistake over and over.
I don't particularly like the state that Israel has become and I think the US is way, way too supportive of them.
However, I think anyone smarter than a stone fence post should have learned by now that you are much better off if you just leave the crazy bastiges ALONE.