if she can't get around you spendin $30 a month on something you enjoy, trade her in b4 it's too late...
compare it on something she does for herself, hair-do, nails, gym, clothes.. whatever. explain to her that you could be down at the corner shootin pool, drinkin, gettin lap dances - whatever she doesn't like more than AH... AH is good, clean and cheap entertainment as adult entertainment goes. She doesn't have to enjoy it or understand it, just accept it. Now your $800 computer upgrade every 12 months may take stronger negotiation skills
but really if your relationship strains on you spending a buck a day on yourself, find another relationship..given the $30 a month isn't coming out of your rent or food budget..
[ 08-06-2001: Message edited by: Eagler ]