When my wife wants my attention away from AH, she will come up behind me, grab my joystick, then auger my plane.
Of course, I'm more than happy to give her attention. Usually I have pre-arranged times I devote to AH. Used to be squad nights. She went out with friendds, and I did AH. Lately, life has happened to us, so I spend lots more time with her, but she is encouraging me to start up again after things calm down here (I married the right woman. She wants me to go to the con next year, and might come along too!)