FD,
I appreciate you trying to find resolve in this issue, but unfortunately, it is not simply a matter of gameplay mechanics. The heart of what happened (in my eyes) is over an attitude of, "I know better and you are going to do it my way." That just does not cut it for me, nor did it cut it for those involved with the use of the CV.
All strat everything else aside, more people were having fun using a CV and attacking, and an individual was disappointed in his mission turn out, so he took the CV, to force us to stop attacking a base. Is that type of action right? Not in my eyes. Not in the eyes of those involved. This quickly blew out of porportion, I never used derogatory remarks against the individual involved in the MA, I did here, and that was wrong. Then, again my mistake, I used this board as a sounding to try and get this behavior modified so that others do not get continually slighted by those constantly having little General disease.
Either way it heads, we all have our own opinions. For myself, I would just like to see people use a bit of common courtesy in the future. Otherwise, this quickly degerates into a Quake atmosphere, and then it is time to move on...