And, it's easier to maneuver the boom (which has control wings on it to control elevation and asmuth) than it is to maneuver the aircraft, either aircraft. Finer control, as it were. Both systems have advantages and disadvantages. Also, I believe the boom system can deliver fuel faster, and doesn't require a protruding (or retractable) fuel boom on the receiving aircraft. The US Navy uses the hose/net system because they don't have a carrier-borne fueling aircraft big enough to mount one on. As a result, a single USAF tanker has many times the capacity of any Navy refueling aircraft. On the other hand, the Navy has (or had, at least), something called "buddy stores." These could turn non-tanker aircraft like fighters and A-6 intruders into temporary tankers; these use the hose/basket system.
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Maj, USAF (Ret)