Well geez Rude, I'm sure others are not looking to fly lazily straight and level holding hands with goofy grins.
But I wont be pissed off if it turns sour.
There are different forms of competition (scenerios, 1v1, 2v2, AH vs WB, etc)... but it all depends on just what the competition is. Like you said, I'll have fun being competitive, but I wont let it become SO competitive that it spills over into other areas.