Originally posted by Rude:
Ram.....
I saw no reference in the original post regarding rude behavior. To help others out and build a stronger community is a small price to pay.
If I were new here and read this, I would form the opinion that those posting negative remarks about new players were selfish and self centered, only willing to lend a hand the way they saw fit and not help me get through the learning curve and enjoy the sim more quickly.
Nice job!
To all of the new players...
What you see here is the bitter minority...not representative of the community...If ya need help, just ask and many will be willing to lend a hand...even if it is inconvenient.
Is quite curious, rude,that I've never seen you offering help in #1 to someone asking to go to TA. I've gone there quite many times to help newbies to get a grip on AH. And I ain't a trainer. And is more curious that, you not doing that, you come here and drop that kind answer on me

Face it: while most newbies are polite and their questions are OK, there is a quite good number of them who come in and start yelling and asking in caps to the four winds why do they crash the plane on take off.
And face it, while you are in MA, you dont need to read their demands in capital letters. And much less you need the same guy popping a nice join request for the fifth time in a row after you have refused four times before.
All those things are not rare in the MA today. I personally could't care the less about the newbie yelling and demanding for help. I even don't take the work to squelch them. But I understand those who simply are fed up of that kind of dweebs. Maybe you don't understand them. But I do.
Said that, I can tell you of a good list of guys who say "hey people I'm new here, how do I take off?" (in this tone and without caps), and have a private from RAM telling them if they want to move to the TA to get some training.
I dont dislike newbies. I dislike stupid instant-action dweebs who demand your help HERE AND NOW.
So get your facts straight next post, please

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[edit] BTW I indeed saw a reference to rude behavior in the first post of this thread. I'm sure LePaul wasn't critizing the average newbie who asks in a normal and calm way to get some advice. Any normal question is OK for me and I usually answer them.
But for me to DEMAND instant answers in capital letters, and to send repeated requests to join another player without asking first, is rude and unpolite behavior. And I simply dont answer to any question asked in those terms, nor I offer any help if the one asking for it doesn't know how to ask it in a normal way without ordering you to help him NOW.
Maybe you've got other standards, but mine are those

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[ 11-27-2001: Message edited by: R4M ]