I'm all for making "who killed who" LESS known. I'm also for making the "name in lights" go away altogether, or let it be for team only. I think it clutters up the text. Let the text bar be for txt'ing between players and game info ("Hanger Destroyed", or "You shot down Spit16", etc).
Also, just building on my earlier idea of enemy icons: I'm thinking at 6k it should say "CON1" in red (or CON2 or CON3 for bomber flights), at 3k it says what model in red (109, Spit, A6M, P51, P38, Yak, B25, etc), and at 400yrds it says what variant it is also in red (Spit16, 109G14, 190A8, B25C, P47N, etc).