AmOn, could it be the only conversation you care to deem intelligent is that which agrees with you?
I heard your suggestion. You want some form of reward for living. Great, happy for you. You have that already in the perk multiplier.
You mentioned your distaste for people who defy the consequences of death by heading into enemy ack or dogfight near an enemy base. Fine. Don't do it if you don't like that type of play. Simple, see?
You mentioned having a low con, and "...It would make me think twice about chasing someone down and blowing my E if i new that if i died i wasnt going to get credit for the kill or even perks for it, if i was killed. But i understand that some could not accept that as inspiration to stay a live." The suggestion you mentioned is a penalty for not doing things the way you prefer they be done, pure and simple. This I always disagree with, regardless from whom I hear it.
Your problem is you want an incentive to stay alive in a fight. My problem is you want to drag me into your solution, despite my desire to do otherwise. If you can derive a solution that doesn't penalize me in the process, go for it, I'll support you. If you want to dictate how I fly, I say forget it.