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« Reply #60 on: October 19, 2005, 12:10:15 PM »
of course when little green men comes to visit, you can always say god was a capitalist and franchised.

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« Reply #61 on: October 19, 2005, 12:28:29 PM »
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People r stupid. they cant admit that there could be something smarter and better than them.(God) Contrary to popular belief Hitler was not a Christian. He was an atheist and saw christianity as being weak and a form of juadism. Now, do u wanna be like Hitler? Atheists don't isten to morales and are jerks. they often get involved with communism and faschism.


Yah know, there's a guy on the school board named Jesus Morales, I knda doubt he's an atheist, but he truly a dick.
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« Reply #62 on: October 19, 2005, 01:48:47 PM »
If you were Christian, you would undoubtedly raise your children to be Christian because you want them to be saved and go to heaven with you rather than be consigned to Hell. If you were a "good" Christian, you might also teach them to love everyone regardless of any differences between their beliefs. If you were a "bad" Christian, you might teach them to force their beliefs on as many people as possible and to hate, harass, and/or kill anyone who disagrees. If you were Catholic, you would teach them to worship a small statue of the Virgin Mary and submit to the sexual needs of the local priest.

Since you believe religions are false, why would you want your children to even consider believing in them? Teach them to believe as you do. How are you ever going to raise children if you are afraid of teaching them what you believe is right?

You can try to teach your children one of two ways to think:
1. Blindly believe in something because someone tells you to do so.
2. Make observations and make "rational decisions" based on those observations.

At a glance, #2 sounds very appealing. But how many 4 year olds can review philosophy and make decisions for themselves about how the world works and how they should behave?

Until children are old enough to think for themselves, they need a strong push to get going in the "right direction". If you present diverse beliefs as being equally viable and allow them to believe in anything they want, they just might end up fighting on the side of Osama Bin Laden in Afghanistan. All people have some kind of philosophy they believe in and live by, if you don't give your children one, someone else will. As a parent, you get the burden and luxury of choosing what the "right direction" will be with some outside pressure from the government, education system, and society in general provding some constraints. I hope you choose to teach your children what you believe is right and don't let other parents' decisions persuade you to do otherwise.

Having a young child ask you "Who is God?" is really no more difficult a question than "Why is the sky blue?" or "Where do babies come from?". You can try to give an adult answer and hope they somehow understand or you can give a stupid answer that will shut them up until they are old enough to find out for themselves--your call.

I would hope that even though you don't believe in religion,  you would at least teach your children some of the concepts and history. Most of the major religions provide a great foundation on how people should live and treat each other. You don't have to believe in God to know the 10 Commandments and understand that they are a pretty good set of rules to live by. Perhaps you should treat Biblical stories like Fairy Tales and Greek mythology to simultaneously entertain and educate your children.

Maybe one day your atheist child who has learned to read will ask a very interesting question: "If there is a constitutional requirement for the separation of church and state such that prayers cannot be said aloud in school and even the Ten Commandments cannot be displayed on a courthouse wall, then why is it that every session of Congress begins with a prayer and all of our money is labled 'In God we trust'?"
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« Reply #63 on: October 19, 2005, 02:28:00 PM »
Very very interesting points, streakeagle.  I will share your post with my wife.
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« Reply #64 on: October 19, 2005, 03:14:40 PM »
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by the way, i am a lutheran.


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« Reply #65 on: October 19, 2005, 03:33:14 PM »
I distinctly remember my 1st true moment of athiesm. I was in 5th grade and a group of the mormon kids were hassling me about not believing in heaven/hell. "If you don't believe you will go to hell" they said. "If I don't believe in hell why would I care?" I remember replying. Followed quickly by the realization that I could have no respect for a "god" that would condemn non-believers to hell when there was no reasonable evidence to support his/her/it's existance in the first place.

I remember feeling sorry for them.

My parents were athiests, but they never pushed it. They allow us to choose our own faith. My sister is christian, my brother and I decidedly not.

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« Reply #66 on: October 19, 2005, 03:40:02 PM »
Hi again Chair,

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Do I get the same free pass with indoctrinating them that religious families do?  Or do I play dumb and tell them "I don't know if there's a god" even though that goes against my beliefs?  


Actually philosophically, you raise an interesting point here. Is there, or should there be, a one to one correlation between Christians teaching their children that there is a God, and those who profess atheism teaching their children there isn't a God?

Well first why do Christians teach their children there is a God? Some would say this is all a matter of presenting what they "feel to be the case" as a fact. There is of course a kernel of truth to that. The Bible teaches that all men inherently know that there is a God both through his works in creation and via an inner conviction, but that many choose to suppress what they know: "...what may be known of God is manifest in them, for God has shown it to them.  For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead..." So to a certain extent when one teaches one's children that there is a God, and that he is the Creator, one is simply laying before them what theologians call the teaching of "natural revelation."

Of course not even Christians would say that one can move from the data in natural revelation to the Christian faith, or any of the more complex doctrines taught in the bible, or even that which is necessary to be known in order to saved. Nature teaches us almost nothing of theology. For that, some other form of revelation from God is necessary, which only makes sense. If we are to have any knowledge of God or His will, he must reveal it to us. As Geerhardus Vos explains:

"From the definition of Theology as the science concerning God follows the necessity of its being based on revelation. In scientifically dealing with impersonal objects we ourselves take the first step; they are passive, we are active; we handle them, examine them, experiment with them. But in regard to a spiritual, personal being this is different. Only in so far as such a being chooses to open up itself can we come to know it. All spiritual life is by its very nature a hidden life, a life shut up in itself. Such a life we can know only through revelation. If this be true as between man and man, how much more must it be so as between God and man. The principle involved has been strikingly formulated by Paul: “For what man knows the things of a man except the spirit of the man which is in him? Even so no one knows the things of God except the Spirit of God.” [1 Cor. 2:11]. The inward hidden content of God’s mind can become the possession of man only through a voluntary disclosure on God’s part. God must come to us before we can go to Him. But God is not a personal spiritual being in general. He is a Being infinitely exalted above our highest conception. Suppose it were possible for one human spirit to penetrate directly into another human spirit: it would still be impossible for the spirit of man to penetrate into the Spirit of God. This emphasizes the necessity of God's opening up to us the mystery of His nature before we can acquire any knowledge concerning Him. Indeed, we can go one step farther still. In all-scientific study we exist alongside of the objects which we investigate, But in Theology the  relation is reversed. Originally God alone existed. He was known to Himself alone, and had first to call into being a creature before any extraneous knowledge with regard to Him became possible. Creation therefore was the first step in the production of extra-divine knowledge." [Geerhardus Vos, Biblical Theology, p.3-4]

Of course, while the atheist might be willing to accept the logic in the above statement - that if God exists he must reveal himself to us - they would posit that the existance of some revelation doesn't naturally prove that there is a God. Merely that if God existed, He would have to reveal Himself.

Christians of course, believe that both natural and special (i.e. the Bible) revelation are in fact God's manner of revealing himself to us (obviously atheists dispute the source of the revelation and always will) and so in teaching their children about God, Christians teach them from His revelation.

But what of the atheist and his children? Should he teach them, "there is no God!" and on what basis can he do so? He has no inspired revelation that is conclusive on the subject, and in order for him to conclusively know that there is no God in all the universe, he would need to be God himself. The most he can truthfully posit is, " I don't believe there is a God " and then lay out the factors that have inclined him to that decision.

So should there be absolutely parity between the two positions? I don't personally think there can be.

Of course regardless of what he does or doesn't teach his children regarding God, his practice will indicate what he actually believes to them. This works the other way as well, a parent may profess to believe in God to their children, and then disclose by their actions that they are in fact practical atheists.

So Chair, you may not sit your children down tell them there is no God and then read at length from Bertrand Russel, but you will end up inevitably "teaching them" what you believe. So whether or not you get a pass, you'll show them what's in your heart, they're around you 24 by 7 and in constant "record" mode. A good rule of thumb is that you can con co-workers, neighbors, and even girl-friends, but kids? Nah... They know us better than we know ourselves.
 
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« Reply #67 on: October 19, 2005, 03:55:56 PM »
Proving a negative....  is a tricky thing indeed.

Question: Wouldn't it be reasonable (this is just conversation, not actually trying to change people) to, in that same vein, expect Christians to instead teach their kids that they think there is a god instead of that there is a god?

Cogent points, Seagoon.  We may not agree on some pretty big issues, but it seems we can may agree that the scope of the problem is ginormous, no matter which side you're on.
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« Reply #68 on: October 19, 2005, 04:34:33 PM »
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Proving a negative....  is a tricky thing indeed.

Question: Wouldn't it be reasonable (this is just conversation, not actually trying to change people) to, in that same vein, expect Christians to instead teach their kids that they think there is a god instead of that there is a god?


I wish I could devote more time to this question, its a good one, but I have to get ready for a (no joke) Christian child-rearing class.

Anyway, the short answer is no for a number of reasons. First because the Bible teaches that while Christians may struggle with doubts on occasion, the grounds of their faith and assurance are more solid than the mountains. One of my favorite verses along those lines and one which I always close all public readings of scripture with is "The grass withers, the flower fades, But the word of our God stands forever."

Secondly, I know from the position of the atheist, Christianity is just a sentimental crutch designed to help people get through a life that is in fact nasty, brutish, and short and as such the idea of certainity seems absurd to them. But the aim of Christianity isn't actually to be something people merely add to their lives, it is meant to be the foundation for one's existence, both in this life and the next, and has as its aim reconciliation with God (first) and Man (as a by-product) from a position of complete alienation. In simple terms, Christianity teaches men not only how to be saved, but how to live, and then enables them to act on what they now know and believe.

This new relationship with God is created via union with Christ which comes through faith, and a faith that is not merely along the lines of a subjective "Gee, I sure wish that..." but rather the firm belief in the objective fact that Jesus is the Messiah and that God raised Him from the Dead. This faith is thus made up of 3 critical components: knowledge, assent, and trust and trust is of course the very opposite of doubt. So practically speaking, "a doubting faith" or an "uncertain faith" is an oxymoron.

Anyway for more on what I mean above by faith, click on this link

Anywho, interesting conversation Chair, thanks for your patience....

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