The only thing I can figure is that folks expect 109s and 190s to knife fight the same as Spits can down low and slow and I just don't think that's what they are best at.
So you're saying people who've been flying 109s for years still can't tell the difference between how a Spit fights and how a 109s fights, and the complaints are caused by doofuses who try to outturn everything in 109 and 190s - based on a few sorties.
I do believe Luftwhining has reached a new level lately though and part of it seems to stem from some belief that the LW iron should naturally be superior to everything it comes up against.
Some dicussions may have gone in that direction. This matter however, did not.
I guess in the end I look at it this way. My lifelong history interests have been Spits and USAAF birds in particular the 38. So that's what I "fly". If I was a LW junkie I'd fly LW stuff. Either way I'd make the best of it because that's where my interest lies. and quit grumbling about how my particular favorite ride isn't what I believe it should be.
It's particularly easy to comment as you would when one's own favorite ride is always pretty much spot on (or in some cases even better than) what one believes it should be.
However, when a 109 at a co-E status loses a fight to a P-47 in vertical looping due to loss of stability control at high AoA during the upward travel and reversal, whereas the P-47 could simply pull down the flaps and gain an almost irreversible advantage during the elongated vertical turn against a plane with better pure turn rate, better power:weight ration, and only half its weight.. it's pretty difficult to "quit grumbling".
Since you're an avid fan of the Spits and P-38s, let me put in terms you may understand:
Imagine how it would be like, if outturning a Fw190 in your precious Spitfire, was as difficult as fighting Spitfires in your beloved P-38G in a low and slow deadlock contest. If trying to simply outturn a Fw190 in a Spit, which doesn't even use rolls but just simply goes into a tightest turn possible, was so damned difficult and skill-demanding, then I have a hunch that it wouldn't be so easy to 'make the best of it.' (Then someone would come along and say he upped a Spit and killed 10 planes in a sortie, so he feels nothing's wrong with the Spit)
I guess in the end, that's basically it for us "Luftwhiners".