You have it all wrong. I didn't ask. She asked that I not do it, she didn't TELL me anything. She reminded me that given my temper it was not wise to place myself in a position to be provoked. It would only have further disrupted the funeral, and given a scumsucking dirtbag extra publicity for free. She was indeed correct that a redneck brawl would not have made it better for the soldier's family. It was their time to say goodbye, it was not my time to show my ass, and not my place to further disrupt their solemn occasion.