Rich,
I disagree with you on two counts:
First, about 99% of the DA pilots sit at 20k in fast rides and do nothing but pick or gang-bang, or HO and spray at you from 2k out. It's very rare I get into any sort of 1v1 that lasts more than a turn or two, and I actually have an easier time finding a good, even fight in the Main Arena than in the DA dweebery (I think I said before that DA is where all the 8-player freeloaders went because they can't cut it in the Mains).
Second, the FM-2 ain't ridiculous.
I Refused to DA for long time because of this, if certain veteran pilots wanted to go, by all means im willing to learn anything I can. But for everyday squeaker to scream DA I refuse on grounds half them dont know what they are doing and its rather pointless.
I always say to everyone best things to learn in training arena are a few rules:
1) Situational Awareness, Even when your the lone con, behind someone always check your 6 because its the one you "didnt see" that gets you. Knowing whats around you, who has what advantage ( for example a 190 5k above you) or spitfire co-alt infront at 6k out in front of you - who would be a bigger threat in the next 30 seconds?
2) Know your ride - inside and out, most guys say 190a8 sucks it cant fight or 109 sucks it cant fight, simply overload the plane with fuel and guns thinking HEY!! big guns means better plane, then wonder why they cant even dogfight bombers. Learn what rides can do what, speed, fuel, turn ability, snapshots
3) Biggest killer in new players - refusing to learn to dogfight, Boom and Zoom might be an easy tactic to learn since it offers the safest tactic of them all: Get lots of alt, and speed and take one pass and run. You will never learn to fight like this, However I ways state learn 2 rides:
Something like a Spitfire 8 for dogfight training, and lets say a Fw190d9 for BnZ training. This way a player can learn 2 solid planes, and its abilities vs other rides. And if the player gets good enough he can dogfight in the 190d9 and BnZ in the spitfire.
All depends what you want to get out of this game.