I simply look at the Ho as the other pilot conceding that you are much better than him before he even tries a move.
So on the night that Skyrock HOed me and then on 200 text me and said "sorry for the HO but i was desperate" means i am a better pilot? i disagree.
i caught him low in a dead stall without E and at every disadvantage possible, his only chance as he flopped over sideways was a head on shot as i dropped at him. if he hadn't fired he would have been toast. he had no ability to turn to move to evade before i would have been on him.
to me this is a combatant not giving up, but winning.
i thanked him for his compliment, that a noob like me got lucky enough to catch him in a disadvantage and force him to use a tactic he despises. i might have been the one in the tower but the compliment, made on 200, was worth more than the kill.
so to think that because someone HO's is a consession of his lack of skill or acm is a foolish statement. i would seriously doubt that you have never HOed someone in your history, so would that make you skilless as well?
each flies as they choose, and deploys the tactics that suits them and the situation best. the BOP's fight for the group mission others fight for the personal accomplishments and others still fight for.......well whatever the hell they are doing they are doing it the way they choose.
if you are worried about getting HOed from a BOP 110, then don't up from a base with a 110 mission inbound. take off from somewhere else and maybe, unlikely, but just maybe you'll get there before the base is taken.
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