Simple.
1. All you guys, your word is yours alone, make it impeccable.
2. Don't take it personal - a HO attempt or horde as anyone defines it is a reflection on the other guy, not you.
3. Don't make assumptions - Ask questions
4. Always do your best.
5. Put your ego away, do not let it run you.
Do these things and 200 will get quiet. Non horders will fly in remoter areas (or DA), looking for glory. Horders will be looking for glory in the pack.
You see guys, following the West Point Way of Leadership, if you are not in a position to change things, shut up until you are (start your own MMO fighter plane game thingy). Anything else is just stirring the pot. If you don't like it here, leave. Your wishes or beliefs can not, will not and must not be forced on others. Think Islamic Jihad or Crusades or the Inquisition, all think they were right, non were (by my definition).
You see, it's simple. All you unhappy with bad game play guys, u r the problem... If you are dying, you did something wrong, else you wouldn't be dead. You either didn't reverse right, check six every few, failed to avoid a losing fight, took on a horde (enemy too numerous for you) or you didn't turn from the HO (even for me a simple thing to avoid). Don't blame anyone else, you are dead. dead is dead. Blame yourself!
I will fight my fight as best I can, no amount 200 based noodling will get me to fight yours. If you don't want me to HO ( I will after the first merge, if that angle is my best bet) then don't shoot at me. I will not "pick" unless someone calls for help (after all this is a team based game) If I am in a heavy fast plane, I will not turn fight with a spit. If I am in a NIK I will not try to go into the vertical with a zoomer. But both enemy pilots will groan about it on 200 though :-)
Well, For now many of you can kill me in short order. That will not always be the case (I hope). I do enjoy the many facets of this game. When the enjoyment stops I will leave it, not bellyache about it.