Buzurd,
My advice would be to ignore these insecure little boys and their smack-talk from the start. The unfortunate truth is that many of them are damn good pilots in-game, and if you manage to take one of them down, well then give yourself an "Atta-Boy" and move on. If you don't, so what? It's only a game. Simply fight your fight and have fun.
And if it gets to be too much, simply log off. You'll probably find you're instantly better than many of them in a game we grown-ups call "Real Life".
PS If you haven't done so already, do yourself a favor and turn off Ch 200 (aka "Radio Free Skyrock"). You'll be glad you did.
Cthulhu (Proud holder of the prestigious "Most 262's Lost in a Single Tour Award")