Penguin, I don't know if you're posting all of what you do at every opportunity because you've recently discovered these thought processes and think that perhaps no one else has realized these things, or what. The majority of sane people have an inkling of respect for humanity and destroyed innocent lives. By posting it in this situation you only make yourself look like an ass.
The fact of the matter is that there's a time and a place to discuss it. You don't discuss the consequences of what airmen who gave their lives were ordered to do, when others are trying to honor them.
In the same respect, it would be inappropriate to point out that of innocent Iraqis and Afghans have died at the hands of the US military at the funeral of an American serviceman.
Similarly, it's inappropriate and equally stupid to try to make a point that extreme devotion to a flag seemingly above what it's meant to stand for is hypocritical and silly, in a setting where people are honoring that flag.
That's what you need to learn. Keep your mouth shut unless it's appropriate for you to open it.