A squad that:
1) Values fighter skill, and no I don't mean the running away timid kind (which I define here as a K/H of >5). I mean ACMing
2) Members that have a sense of humor, can dish it out and take it and still laugh about it.
3) Members that are willing to help other members get better, and make a deliberate attempt at doing so.
4) Is almost devoid of politics, IE no ranks (other than a CO or whatever) and members are just...members.
If so, who/what/when/where/why 
PJ
Lots of squads fall into this category. We fly joint ops with many squads as we rotate through the chess pieces and find more squads willing to laugh, help and ignore ranks than obnoxious, helpless and "all about me"
Search around, ask if you can tune to and fly with a different squad once a week or even every night, you'll find what your looking for.
