Yeah, your'e probably right, but a man needs to keep a bit of himself too and hobbies are important. I'm going with a moderation approach. I plan on flying from 6-8pm tonight MST, so I'll have dinner about done by the time she gets home at 5:30 and will watch some insipid TV show with her and the daughter afterwards.
hobbies mean nothing without your family. My family will be my hobby for a long time... I'm praying everyday with tears and words to God to give me another chance...
been with my wife 20 years.....she don't like AH but would never abandon me for it....personally I think his wife is just using it as an excuse.
if she is gonna leave you over this...she aint worth keeping.
good luck in whatever happens...but don't give up who you are for her because then you will have animosity towards her, and that is no way to live.
not sure if you guys have kids together...no matter what they will always be your kids, that will not change.
reading more I see you say, "you needed to get her "permission" to take money out of your account"....seems like she is the typical I am the boss wife....I would bet money she has an account that you don't know about.
I played aces high at one time when I got home until 3 in the morning....I didnt help do the kids baths....homework...or chores in the house....I didn't ask her how her day was at work and if there is anything that I can do for her. It takes 2 and I neglected her.
She's worth keeping, a fantastic mother, a great wife if I showed her that I loved her, and thinks about other people before herself. The best woman that I ever met.
As far as the bank accounts I know now that a marriage is a partnership and there shouldn't be 2 bank accounts only 1. To take out any loan without your spouses permission is selfish and self centered and thats exactly what I was. I was so blind.
Go buy the movie "fireproof" it opened up my eyes, I was so blind.