"it boils down to.... do you like 30 v 30 fights or 30 vs 1. desillys, sunchaser and eddiek can't disguise that."
No need to disguise anything. The MA is what it is, a complex arena, with all types of players, some looking to be part of organized raids, at one end of the spectrum, and some, like you, who only want to get into action with a minimal time in transit. Funny thing is, they can and DO co-exist right now, as we speak.
"30 vs 1"? Looks like somebody either greatly overestimates his ability, or is just plain nuts if they up at a field with those kinds of numbers facing him. Or, more likely, both.
If you look back, Lazs, you will see that I was one of those who used to clammer for more 1v1 fights, or at least ones with smaller numbers. But, unlike you, I saw that everyone has the right to fly the way THEY want, and when I reached that point, it all made sense to me. I could accept the fact that I was not in control of anyone other than myself, or I could quit.
Looks like you need to look at AH overall and decide if this is where you really wanna be...........if you can't accept that not all of us want to do what you want, you are never going to be happy here.