Obear, A couple of things, First the learning curve takes more than a few weeks ( i can atest to this personally). You have one up on me ( you fly for real) BUT i bet the planes you have flown are NOWHERE near the torque and shear power of these WW2 planes. I drive a 92 GMC van and also a 1965 GTO, let me tell you there is quite a bit of difference in performance and handling. I punch the pedal in the goat my whole frame bends with the power and torque and thats only 400 horses, i bet the horse power difference between ww2 fighter planes and the ones you fly are thousands of horses apart. Also you are flying against people who have over a year in this sym, and even after my first year in AH i get my bellybutton handed to me on a daily basis. The learning curve is steep and long ,BUT the joy and pleasure of winning a fight are much more satisfying. I'm sure many don't like this realism ( too hard), but many do like it. I'm sure in real life it took more than a few weeks to learn to fly a ww2 fighter , let alone be any good in ACM with it. After all the f4 was called " the ensign killer" .
Try the sym for a month or two, if you still have a problem, toss it up as a learning experience.
And thanx for the mature post about your dissadifaction.
NUTTZ