Cracking website!
I read a lot of it tonight, and will go back there tomorrow to read more. I can relate to a lot of what was said. I was nodding in agreement page after page after page - and my wife was American!
I got divorced in 1995/96, and I'll never remarry. I'm not bitter as such, but I've simply no wish to run a repeat. I could see that there were going to be problems
very soon after marriage, so we didn't have kids.
At the time I was getting divorced, I sought comfort/reassurance from my friends, and then looked on in amazement when one by one they themselves started divorcing. No fewer than 6 couples that were friends of mine in 1996 went for the Big D.
Of course there
are some good marriages - look at eskimo. But it seems they are rare.