Author Topic: Recently Divorced like myself? Best website evar! (Read 2026 times)

aztec · « **Reply #45 on:** January 28, 2004, 07:53:11 AM »

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Originally posted by beet1e
and my wife was American!

Hmmmm;)

lazs2 · « **Reply #46 on:** January 28, 2004, 08:15:46 AM »

I am sure that it can all be traced to womens suffrage. Ending womens suffrage will be good for both sexes.

lazs

Ripsnort · « **Reply #47 on:** January 28, 2004, 08:20:07 AM »

You guys just missed out, *I* married the best woman eva! Best friend, loves to fish, camp, would rather do a week on a lake than a week in Mexico, doesn't spend money on the latest fashions, earns more money than me, sticks to a budget, and still thinks that Johnson is a food group.

edit: speelling

lazs2 · « **Reply #48 on:** January 28, 2004, 08:41:29 AM »

rip... I don't care who she is.... I don't want to spend every day for ever looking/talking at someone.

lazs

Ripsnort · « **Reply #49 on:** January 28, 2004, 08:45:59 AM »

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Originally posted by lazs2
rip... I don't care who she is.... I don't want to spend every day for ever looking/talking at someone.

lazs

I completely understand Lazs, remember, I met you once.

(Incidently, I don't see her but 4 days a week, probably why our marriage is so successful! )

lazs2 · « **Reply #50 on:** January 28, 2004, 08:56:24 AM »

met me? ah yes... I recall... you are the short bald guy... mumble a lot.

my best time in any marriage was about 8 months when I worked out of town and seen my wife about 2 days a week max. I guess that is one way to have a successful marriage.

lazs

beet1e · « **Reply #51 on:** January 28, 2004, 09:25:28 AM »

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Originally posted by lazs2
my best time in any marriage was about 8 months when I worked out of town and seen my wife about 2 days a week max. I guess that is one way to have a successful marriage.

I don't disagree. Remember the late comedian, Peter Cook? He was one half of a comedy duo. Dudley Moore was the other. Cook died in 1995, and in his obituary I read that he lived alone in one house, while his wife lived in another house about 150 yards down the road. I thought that was odd at the time, but you can see the sense in it. And as Cook himself said, more people would probably live like that if they could afford to.

Rude · « **Reply #52 on:** January 28, 2004, 09:42:13 AM »

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Originally posted by Pongo
I think your correct Rude and congrats on your marriage.
I dont think that refutes the web site though. Marriage is definatly in a state of flux. When laws change to match what marriage really is now maybe it will be more worthwhile again.

Might be hard to legislate love...sex maybe...but love?

Rude · « **Reply #53 on:** January 28, 2004, 09:59:39 AM »

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Originally posted by lazs2
met me? ah yes... I recall... you are the short bald guy... mumble a lot.

my best time in any marriage was about 8 months when I worked out of town and seen my wife about 2 days a week max. I guess that is one way to have a successful marriage.

lazs

C'mon Laz...you've just danced with the wrong partners is all....it's impossible to seek out and collect a good one....still, they are out there.

BTW...I agree with the suffrage issue....what where they thinking?

Dnil · « **Reply #54 on:** January 28, 2004, 10:27:58 AM »

true rude, there could be.

I guess there is a 40% chance of finding one you dont divorce.

I remember early in my marriage. I felt exactly like Rip does. Exactly. Never would have thought I would ever get a divorce.

Ripsnort · « **Reply #55 on:** January 28, 2004, 11:00:02 AM »

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Originally posted by Dnil

I remember early in my marriage. I felt exactly like Rip does. Exactly. Never would have thought I would ever get a divorce.

Whats early? Married 15 years now... but we've dated, known each other for 20 years.

No doubt, all sorts of variables for all sorts of situations. Every relationship is unique.

2Slow · « **Reply #56 on:** January 28, 2004, 11:22:09 AM »

I am doomed! Experiencing some of the worst stuff on the site now. Of course, some of it is my own doing. Mantra: Delete explorer history and all off line files. You really don't want her to see where you have been.

lazs2 · « **Reply #57 on:** January 28, 2004, 02:38:49 PM »

my guess is that about 10% of the males and 50% of the females in this country have the personalities that would make a marriage work.

I am not one of the 10%. Not even close. I don't comprimise... can't lie to em... don't want someone hanging on me and like a lot of time to myself. I also have hobbies that few women are interested in and can't pretend to be interested in what they are. I don't care that much about food and hate eating out for the most part. I can't watch a 'chick flik" unless it has some good action..

In short... I am selfish and happy. I do not aspire to be unselfish and unhappy.

lazs

miko2d · « **Reply #58 on:** January 28, 2004, 03:39:54 PM »

There is a huge shortage of girls in India and China. In India some states have 150 boys born for for 100 girls. China is expected to have 40 million extra marriageable males in a couple of decades.

In a few years the american women - who outnubmer men and are more active politically and tend to be liberal - will vote to relax immigration controls even further so they could import foreign husbands in place of americans who do not want them.

That conversion of america to sino-indian race will of course be financed by a huge tax imposed on single childless non-married american males.

Scary?

miko

Ping · « **Reply #59 on:** January 28, 2004, 03:45:09 PM »

Yes but are you failing to mention that the larger ratio of baby boys being born is because they are killing the baby girls?