jamusta,I disagee that it is all bs,I cannot speak for anyone else but I would not be ashamed or afraid to say anything I have written on this thread to anyone face to face,it may help u to set a line and if someone crosses that line joking or serious to totally dis re gard it.I do not pass judgement on colour but character.Yes whites do crack jokes and start threads like this,as do blacks,browns,yellows,reds,blues,and pinks,We do need to discuss all subjects in the light of day, things that are hidden spawns those sheets you talk about and believe me every race has worn them at one time or another,