Originally posted by Martlet
We have a volunteer service. Parents don't have a say in what their children decide to do. Her son chose to serve his country. You'd think she'd respect that. Her grief is overwhelming her common sense.
I'd haveto agree with that. and isnt the job of diffusing bombs and mines something you also volounteer for.
Somehow I dont think they issue that kind of duty at random.
I kinda understand her greif or at least I've seen it.
I lost my oldest and best friend last year when he was decapitated by a car. While crossing a highway in poor light condidions
Now I dont see the driver being at fault inasmuch as he My friend) was trashed drunk and decided to walk down the road in the drivers lane during a green light.
Now I myself have almost hit people on this streatch of road as because fo the way its lit and with oncomming traffic you dont see anyone walking untill your right on top of them.
His sister doesnt agree. And only knows her brother is dead and so there must be someone to blame. And it cant be him even though in reality it was him.
A poor comparison I know But what im getting at is misplaced anger. Her son is dead. It cant be an accident someone has to be blamed for it.