Adultery, no double standard, is it wrong?

[lazs2]

It boils down to honesty.   One should never get too comfortable with dishonesty.    I realize that women are deceptive creatures but that is no excuse for dishonesty on your part.  

and shaden... no problem with your theory... you could be right.  If you feel that you are unable to resist then all you have to do is tell whoever you are with that you are incapable of doing so and then make no promises to remain faithful

lazs

[genozaur]

Originally posted by Suave
What evidence have you that indicates humans aren't one of the monogamous species ?

It's really boils down to honor. If you're not the type of person who can stab your closest loved ones in the back, then try your hardest not to hookup with trash who can. I know it's much easier said than done.

Men are polygamous animals brainwashed by women into monogamous slaves.
It's no wonder though, cuz we have to survive in the matriarchal society, and most of us, men are weak and have a big sweet tooth for cherries.

P.S. My first beautiful wife cheated on me when I was in the Army, stationed overseas. She kept writing nice letters to me though ....
And I did became a changed man when I broke off from that bondage. I turned into the MAN.
Yet still prefer to pick only the best one from the whole flock.

[lada]

Originally posted by GtoRA2
Halo
 Are you married or have a girl friend?

I am not talking about human society, just US mostly or western.


Would you want some guy ****ing your girl? Would she want you ****ing around? You want your leaders do those types of things?

well IMO promisciuty is kind of fashion and fun for brainless people, with limited education.

I also have a friend and she work in top management in some telco company... man she is so pride to having sex with almost every smiling boy in her company...


But most intersting fact about faithfulness is comparation of cultures all around the world. Then its realy easy to deduce what is nature of the human and what is diference between civilized&pseudo civilized world.

politics&sex with others.
well when somebody doesnt have problems to cheat his partner, wife or husband... im sure he doesnt have problem to cheat his voters.... just MO

[lada]

Originally posted by Schaden
Well he should perhaps get some help, there are far worse things that can happen.

It's just old mother nature making people do what they have done for 100's of thousands of years.

Men are programmed to have sex with as many fertile females as they can - it is the best way for their genetic code to be passed on in their offspring - for women the best way is to have a single mate who looks after them and the child for 8-10 years - if that man has other mates then there is less chance of resources being used to bring up the woman's offspring.

You can't change evolutionary behaviour that has lasted millenia by a couple of hundred years of religious superstition.

for that kind of liviing you do not even need brain or "civilization" do you ?

for men its also nature to eliminate all potencial dangerous things...... but only few of us found balls to shot their neigbour

got my point ?

let someone faaak your wife and watch your natural reaction....  
then go ad let your wife watch you&other girl..... and watch her natural reaction.......

and then we can speak again what is nature, what is not nature and what is natural and what is not natural.

then we could conclude, what kind of beneffits have each way of life.

what do you think ?

[Muckmaw1]

Statistics say 75% of all men married over 5 years have had an affair and 40% of women in the same situation have as well.

I guess the folks on this BBS are a statistical abberation....

[lazs2]

no one said that we didn't do it... only that it is dishonest.   I have quit making promises in this regard except to promise to admit it... this seems fair considering the disease risk.

lazs

[Suave]

Originally posted by Muckmaw1
Statistics say 75% of all men married over 5 years have had an affair and 40% of women in the same situation have as well.

I guess the folks on this BBS are a statistical abberation....

If true, that's a depressing statistic.

[AKS\/\/ulfe]

Muck's statistics are prolly about the US.

What's the divorce rate at now?
-SW

[Muckmaw1]

Originally posted by AKS\/\/ulfe
Muck's statistics are prolly about the US.

What's the divorce rate at now?
-SW

Right, because Europeans are super-human.

[Suave]

Originally posted by lada
for that kind of liviing you do not even need brain or "civilization" do you ?

for men its also nature to eliminate all potencial dangerous things...... but only few of us found balls to shot their neigbour

got my point ?

let someone faaak your wife and watch your natural reaction....  
then go ad let your wife watch you&other girl..... and watch her natural reaction.......

and then we can speak again what is nature, what is not nature and what is natural and what is not natural.

then we could conclude, what kind of beneffits have each way of life.

what do you think ?

Good point Lada.  Also men and women have different attitudes about sex.  I find that most women have more respect for a slut than they do for a prostitute. And they're surprised to learn that men generally have more respect for a prostitute than for a slut. I find that curious.

[AKS\/\/ulfe]

Originally posted by Muckmaw1
Right, because Europeans are super-human.

They are... but, aw screw it. Everything with you is US vs Europeans.

Hey, the Japanese make better cars than the US!
-SW

[wombatt]

I once cheated on a woman i was living with.
She somehow found out where this girl i was seeing lived and came over one night while i was there and was baging on the door waving a pistol around.

Needless to say we did not let her in LOL.
Point being it can push some people over the edge.
Passion has caused many a killings.

[Muckmaw1]

Originally posted by AKS\/\/ulfe
They are... but, aw screw it. Everything with you is US vs Europeans.

Hey, the Japanese make better cars than the US!
-SW

I believe you stated that the infidelity rate I noted was restricted to the US, implying that infidelity rates are higher in the US than anywhere else.

[AKS\/\/ulfe]

Originally posted by Muckmaw1
I believe you stated that the infidelity rate I noted was restricted to the US, implying that infidelity rates are higher in the US than anywhere else.

Yes, I did. Everywhere else isn't just Europe. Unless your map is missing 3/4s of the world.
-SW

[Muckmaw1]

Originally posted by AKS\/\/ulfe
Yes, I did. Everywhere else isn't just Europe. Unless your map is missing 3/4s of the world.
-SW

Alright, allow me to rephrase...

According to you, only Americans cheat to those levels. The rest of the world is different.

Feel better?

I do.