I dont think either one of us will ever agree on this so i will leave it at this last port.
You keep saying saying that vandalism, stealing and anything else you did as a child that. You would not do now. you grew out of. So does that mean if you knew right from wrong.
Then why did you stop doing those things??? did it just get boring and you went onto bigger and better things?, or did you grow up enough to know better.
If you were caught. Should you be treated as an adult at that time a harden criminal. and not as a child..
You keep saying that they are not the same. I agree that they are not the same in degrees of violence. but they are the same for the reason you felt like you should do them then. you knew better, but you still did them. you did not think...
But know better now. you can think things through, you know that violence is wrong not just because it is against the law. or that you may get caught. But because you know how it effects the people around you, and the families of the victims.
We will never see eye to eye on how children think, and how we should treat them when they mess up.
Think as a child they can