Author Topic: Why do some people feel the need to sit near others?  (Read 854 times)

Offline GtoRA2

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Why do some people feel the need to sit near others?
« on: March 14, 2005, 02:48:29 PM »
Ok, so a work buddy and I go out for lunch, 11am local time.

We head out to Clarke’s on El Camino, never been there before. We arrive and one other person is there and he is waiting for takeout.

The place is empty, and has 4 areas to sit in, one by the ordering counter,  then two areas off of that, then an outdoor area. This being Cali, out doors works cause it is a nice sunny 73.

we order, get our food and sit down in an area with no one else around.

Next customer comes in, and sits down right next to us. The next DAMN booth. Customer 3 comes in and sits down at the other booth! Customer 2 has 2 very noise brats. She has a British accent and is annoying (kids beating plastic cups on the table top very loud, mommy only says shss, that makes them louder)

Not every customer from that point on comes to our area some spread out, but most come into the wing we are in.


When we leave I make a point to walk all through the place and see the seating. In the other areas, there are a total of 3 people.  None of these places is harder to get to. Easy to see them right from the counter.

This is not an isolated incident. It happens every time we go to lunch, 11 is early so you miss the lunch rush, but it will start while your in a restaurant, more often then not people fill one area, no one ever tells them to go sit in this area they just do.

Is this some long past basic instinct that makes these sheep like people sit near others for safety?

What do you guys do when confronted with an empty restaurant, save for one or two other people? Park it right next to them or find a nice private area?

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« Reply #1 on: March 14, 2005, 02:54:14 PM »
It must be your intense animal magnetism...

If I were entering a restaurant, and Rachel Hunter were sitting alone, I would sit as close as I could to her.

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« Reply #2 on: March 14, 2005, 02:55:17 PM »
Well I am damn sexy!

Still, I can not be the only one who does not like overhearing everyone elses conversations.

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« Reply #3 on: March 14, 2005, 02:57:44 PM »
I got to say, your story is making me want  to sit next to you.
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« Reply #4 on: March 14, 2005, 02:59:54 PM »
Ever noticed on 880 going either direction, that when it rains bad enough to make you slow to a crawl every one speeds and makes sure they stay bumper to bumper for moral support and safety?.....:)
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« Reply #5 on: March 14, 2005, 03:01:03 PM »
I have noticed driving long distance people like to stay in packs.



I am always speeding... so I end up anoyed I can't get past a herd of guys going 69.

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« Reply #6 on: March 14, 2005, 03:02:05 PM »
It's possible they just used the same reasoning as you did, and chose seats in the same area?  Plus the lady with the kids might have figured they would be less noisy in an outdoor area.  Or rather, that the noise would dissipate better outdoors, not that they would BE less noisy lol.

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« Reply #7 on: March 14, 2005, 03:03:59 PM »
well, no cause we were not outdoors, I was just saying there was outdoors, and if they were using my criteria, they would have gone to ANY other area. My area was empty then mostly filled with these jokers!

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« Reply #8 on: March 14, 2005, 03:20:28 PM »
Well when I go to the zoo I like to be able to sit close to the animals there too:D
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« Reply #9 on: March 14, 2005, 03:28:10 PM »
These people actually sat next to you at a public restaurant?  Those BASTARDS!

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« Reply #10 on: March 14, 2005, 03:32:16 PM »
Well thats it GTO, dont ever suggest meeting for a beer with you ever again! I dont want to get mobbed by horny british soccermoms with bad teeth...

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« Reply #11 on: March 14, 2005, 03:35:04 PM »
Thats right!!

Bastages!


Thats not the point, I am saying, why would they want to.


Let me make this simpler for you BBS comedians!



When chosing a seat in a restaraunt, do  you:

A: Sit right next to the clump of people already in an area

B: Chose a table near as few people as posible.

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« Reply #12 on: March 14, 2005, 03:36:29 PM »
Sorry I keep flaking on ya Grun! We really should some time here,  I hope the british soccer mom was a fluke.

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« Reply #13 on: March 14, 2005, 03:49:16 PM »
I'm the guy he went to lunch with.  Let me tell you, the British soccer moms just love him.  It gets really old.

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« Reply #14 on: March 14, 2005, 04:01:02 PM »
:rofl