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« Reply #30 on: March 29, 2005, 12:03:42 PM »
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Got it, you think you know what she believed and her husband and the others are lying.

You could've said that without getting all cuckoo religious.

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Next time, READ THE POST IDIOT.

I did not get cuckoo religious. I said I'm NOT Catholic, and I don't necessarily agree with them. I said she was supposedly a devout Catholic, and what was being done was contrary to HER beliefs if she was.

Her husband screwed up on Larry King Live and said "we don't know what Terri wanted", "but this is what we want".

By the way, nearly $400,000 of the money paid to Michael Schiavo for her care has been paid to the attorney Michael hired to make sure she died.

Oh, and the judge in the case, judge Greer, recieved campaign donations from that same attorney.
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« Reply #31 on: March 29, 2005, 12:06:23 PM »
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Yeah, and I guess a few on this Bbs would contend that you're nothing but a murder because of it....:rolleyes:

and truly, Sorry for your loss....


:rofl :rofl :rofl

It's really funny how you compare apples to horse turds.

Maverick's case is not even close to the Schiavo case.
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« Reply #32 on: March 29, 2005, 12:15:15 PM »
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If i'm not mistaken heresay is "Someone told me that she said that...."
and that is indeed inadmissable in most cases.

However, people testifying to hearing her say it in person, that's direct testimony and quite admissable.


That is NOT the case with U.S. law. For example, I have a friend who was murdered by her boyfriend. A while before it happened, said boyfriend beat her and broke a couple of teeth. She told her mother what happened. At the pre trial hearing held 3 years ago (the murder happened in 1984, he was caught in 2001, the trial has not been held yet), the judge ruled that her mother COULD NOT testify to what the victim told her, on the grounds it was hearsay evidence. However, last year (he STILL has not been tried) the state supreme court ruled that the testimony was admissable, under the excited utterence exception rule. This means that while the testimony is in fact HEARSAY, it is admissable because the witness heard the victim say it under special circumstances.

So, in order for what Terri supposedly said, and her husband and his relatives supposedly heard, to be admissable, it would have to be an "excited utterance".
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« Reply #33 on: March 29, 2005, 02:02:27 PM »
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...You could've said that without getting all cuckoo religious.

good bye


Funny old world isn't it? It's perfectly sane and reasonable to believe in UFO abductions, intelligent life on other planets, reincarnation, trilaterialism, transitional life form fossils (although we haven't yet found any), transcendental meditation, ESP, the big bang, and of course Euthanizing people, but the moment one starts talking about building one's worldview on a document with well over 2000 years of attestation and of which we have more reliable copies than any other ancient document, one has become "Cuckoo religious".  Not that I'm anyone to point fingers, I used to do exactly the same thing. That is till I left the sane world of voluntary and involuntary Euthanasia on demand and went absolutely cuckoo myself...

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« Reply #34 on: March 29, 2005, 02:16:47 PM »
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The way I read it, at least half a dozen times, it was NOT Terri Schiavo's sister who heard it, it was her husband's brother and sister. Also it has been stated that a friend of Terri and her husband heard her say it.

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Actually it was her uncle, her brother in law, and her best friend at the time. I posted the links and the quotes in another thread but dont feel like looking for them being as it was about the 8th time I posted it.

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« Reply #35 on: March 29, 2005, 02:58:34 PM »
Hello Raider,

Here is a quote for you: "...a friend of Schiavo's, Diane Meyer, testified about a statement Schiavo made to her concerning Quinlan.

Quinlan's parents persuaded the New Jersey Supreme Court to order their daughter off a ventilator in 1976, though she remained on a feeding tube.

Meyer said she joked about Quinlan to Terri Schiavo in the summer of 1982 after seeing a movie about the case on television. Meyer said the joke was in bad taste and upset Schiavo, then 19.  Meyer said Schiavo told her "she did not approve of what happened. What the parents are doing" to Quinlan, transcripts state."

There are others who testify that the statements Michael remembered 7 years into his fight to cause her to die conflict with statements Terri made.

The idea that whether or not a person should be starved to death should be finally determined by anecdotal evidence from highly interested parties either way is absurd. The fact is that there was no living will from Terri and no other irrefutable "I wish to be Euthanized" statements. Michael's supporters say "she wanted to die" and the Euthanasia lobby supports them, Terri's parents say "she wants to live" and the anti-euthanasia lobby supports them. This isn't really too far removed from "who thinks she should die? "

The critical question in all cases of taking human life is not what parents want, or husbands want, or even what the individual in question wants but whether ethically it should be allowed.

For instance, let us suppose that someone were deranged enough to put out a contract for a hit on themselves, would it be murder only if the hit man assumed that someone else was paying them to kill the target? Would a court case in order to prove murder have to show beyond any doubt that the killer didn't know the target wished to die? Or does human life have an inherent value that must be protected regardless of what the killer and victim believe? I fear that while we once were able to answer that question fairly unambiguously we are getting to the point where the mass suicide at Jonestown ceases to be inherently evil and becomes "a right-to-die decision acted on en masse."

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« Reply #36 on: March 29, 2005, 03:34:41 PM »
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Originally posted by Masherbrum Some a**holes feel they have the right to play God.   Pulling a feeding tube is no less than murder, IMO.


If humans had not played God she would have died 15 years ago.

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« Reply #37 on: March 29, 2005, 03:45:25 PM »
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Hello Raider,

Here is a quote for you: "...a friend of Schiavo's, Diane Meyer, testified about a statement Schiavo made to her concerning Quinlan.

Quinlan's parents persuaded the New Jersey Supreme Court to order their daughter off a ventilator in 1976, though she remained on a feeding tube.

Meyer said she joked about Quinlan to Terri Schiavo in the summer of 1982 after seeing a movie about the case on television. Meyer said the joke was in bad taste and upset Schiavo, then 19.  Meyer said Schiavo told her "she did not approve of what happened. What the parents are doing" to Quinlan, transcripts state."

There are others who testify that the statements Michael remembered 7 years into his fight to cause her to die conflict with statements Terri made.

The idea that whether or not a person should be starved to death should be finally determined by anecdotal evidence from highly interested parties either way is absurd. The fact is that there was no living will from Terri and no other irrefutable "I wish to be Euthanized" statements. Michael's supporters say "she wanted to die" and the Euthanasia lobby supports them, Terri's parents say "she wants to live" and the anti-euthanasia lobby supports them. This isn't really too far removed from "who thinks she should die? "

The critical question in all cases of taking human life is not what parents want, or husbands want, or even what the individual in question wants but whether ethically it should be allowed.

For instance, let us suppose that someone were deranged enough to put out a contract for a hit on themselves, would it be murder only if the hit man assumed that someone else was paying them to kill the target? Would a court case in order to prove murder have to show beyond any doubt that the killer didn't know the target wished to die? Or does human life have an inherent value that must be protected regardless of what the killer and victim believe? I fear that while we once were able to answer that question fairly unambiguously we are getting to the point where the mass suicide at Jonestown ceases to be inherently evil and becomes "a right-to-die decision acted on en masse."

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SG,

See I saw the same quote but it went more of the " I would never want to be like that. No Tubes for me..." Got a link?

Felos also said Terri Schiavo told her best friend, brother-in-law and uncle that she would never want to be kept alive in this type of scenario.


http://www.cnn.com/2005/LAW/03/21/schiavo/index.html

I remember seeing her husband invite president bush and Jeb to come visit her but I guess they were too busy to do anything other than grab some free press.

As for these others you mention I have seen no evidence of them anywhere...Even her own parents dont go as far as to say that. They just say it goes against her religion. See this quote Its from the parents website

Does Terri have an advanced directive or any wishes about her healthcare?

Terri never signed any directive or living will and there is no evidence that she foresaw her present situation

The parents say NO EVIDENCE. They dont say there are some people who say she said the opposite. I would think if there were some they would be all over the news and the parents website.

http://www.terrisfight.org/

Sorry but  I totally disagree on the part about who's choice it is. It is the individuals choice when to call it quits. Whether en masse at Jonestown or quietly in one's own house. Why force someone to live that doesn't want to? Give me one good reason. I for one can see how someone can be in so much pain or drudgery that their life no longer is by any means enjoyable and becomes rather horrible. The only case I might say intervene would be severe depression. That is curable and the person can go on to having a normal life.(or anything that fits that condition)

btw I know we see opposites of most issues but just wanted to tell you I think you are wise and offer very good points with no animosity ever detected in your posts.

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« Reply #38 on: March 29, 2005, 04:01:42 PM »
Raider, I feel the same way.  But if it is not clearly spelled out in a document, you should not just kill the person.
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« Reply #39 on: March 29, 2005, 04:58:40 PM »
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Raider, I feel the same way.  But if it is not clearly spelled out in a document, you should not just kill the person.


Maybe its because I dont think one is required. I don't see it as killing them either. Its letting them die not killing them. She was 26 when it happened to her, how many 26 year olds do you think have a living will? I would guess maybe half a half a half a percent. If even that many. Does that mean we shouldn't abide by her wishes? Not in my book.

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« Reply #40 on: March 29, 2005, 06:50:46 PM »
So you have a person who's been sitting in a basically vegatative state in a bed for 15 years, and people actually want to CONTINUE that?

That's not "mercy".  That's not "life".  That's torture.   Only in a screwed up society such as ours could that even be allowed to continue for so long!

The only entity which benefits is the hospital.  The medical industry LOVES wringing as much money as it can out of sick and dying people who are artifically kept alive.  It's a sick, sick industry.  


But I guess torture and pain is perfectly acceptable as long as: a) it happens to someone else, and b) it prevents weak-minded people from having to confront their own issues with morality.  Out of sight out of mind, as they say.


On a different note, the fact that this woman is Catholic doesn't mean much.  I'm Catholic.  Extremely few Catholics actually practice what their religion preaches.  The few who do....usually live in a fantasy world (such as a relative of mine who refuses to believe in the existance of Alzheimers because it conflicts with her religious beliefs).   I get that a lot from religious people, actually--a refusal to believe/cope with anything they don't like.



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« Reply #41 on: March 29, 2005, 06:58:20 PM »
would it make any difference whatsoever if it was the parents who heard her say it, and not her husband?

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« Reply #42 on: March 31, 2005, 02:33:56 PM »
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SG,

See I saw the same quote but it went more of the " I would never want to be like that. No Tubes for me..." Got a link?


Hi Raider, It's all rather a moot point now, but: http://www.worldnetdaily.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=43142

Actually the testimony as to her wishes fell out the way one would expect, her family and friends maintain she would have wanted to live, his family and friends maintain that she would have wanted to die. There was no incontrovertible proof either way, and obviously one has to weigh the testimony of directly interested parties in the case of hearsay evidence. In fact in most cases, it is usually dismissed and I believe that is wise, regardless of whom it favors.

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Felos also said Terri Schiavo told her best friend, brother-in-law and uncle that she would never want to be kept alive in this type of scenario.


George Felos is the director of Florida Right to Die, and has apparently claimed the ability to look into someones eyes and know whether they want to die or not. My guess is that George would "be able to tell" that my wife and I wanted to die if we fell into a coma, despite the fact that we are both on record as saying that suicide and euthanasia are violations of the 6th commandment.

Cindy Shook, Michael Schiavo's ex-girlfriend ('91-'92)  testified under oath that Michael had said that he was being robbed of a normal life and regarding whether Terri wanted to die she said he yelled "How the hell should I know we never spoke about this, my God I was only 25 years old. How the hell should I know? We were young. We never spoke of this."
http://www.zimp.org/stuff/06%20-%20CindyShookDepo.htm

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Sorry but  I totally disagree on the part about who's choice it is. It is the individuals choice when to call it quits. Whether en masse at Jonestown or quietly in one's own house. Why force someone to live that doesn't want to? Give me one good reason.


Only one good reason? Please forgive me if I go ahead and give several:

1) Euthanasia is a bottomless pit, historically once we conclude that someone can be caused to die for "quality of life" or "utility" reasons, there is a gradual transition from "may" to "must." People in these situations have testified to feeling pressure from both doctors and loved ones, to "do the right thing" and move along by simply dying rather than hanging around and using up resources. Inevitably, once the principle is in place, states begin to take matters into their own hands. Doctors are forced to act in one case as "healer" and in another as "executioner" and eventually the state begins to take a very dim view of allowing the "useless eaters" to hang around regardless of what they want. Parents, for instance, are initially told that the right thing to do with their severely handicapped newborn is to "allow them to die" rather than going through countless costly, painful, and quite possibly ineffective surgeries. Eventually in state managed medical systems the cost to benefit ratio is simply judged to be too high (which is currently the developing situation in the Netherlands) and parents are simply told, we are not going to do this surgery. And their children (or aged parents) are moved to DNF status.  

2) Aside from the fact that the Bible teaches that lives have an inherent rather than a merely instrumental value, man simply does not know that the life he condemns as "worthless" will never amount to anything. One of the fellows I went to seminary with, Paul Sweeny, [ Paul is spoken of in this  Time Magazine Article  ] was born with severe birth defects and his parents were advised by doctors to allow them to put a "Do Not Feed" sign on his incubator and wheel him into a corner. C. Everet Koop intervened and did most of his 33 surgeries free of charge. Today, Paul who is still visibly deformed, has finished college and graduated seminary, I don't know for certain but he has probably gone on to a ministry call somewhere.

3) The Bard, in Hamlet sums up the two greatest compelling reasons for not engaging in Euthanasia or suicide no matter how much we may want to:

A) "O, that this too too solid flesh would melt Thaw and resolve itself into a dew! Or that the Everlasting had not fix'd His canon 'gainst  self-slaughter!"

Shakespeare is correct, the bible unequivocally condemns suicide, stating that we are his creatures, and that he alone has the right to end the lives he gifts us with.

B) "To be, or not to be: that is the question: Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune, Or to take arms against a sea of troubles, And by opposing end them? To die: to sleep; no more; and by a sleep to say we end The heart-ache and the thousand natural shocks That flesh is heir to, 'tis a consummation Devoutly to be wish'd. To die, to sleep; To sleep: perchance to dream: ay, there's the rub; For in that sleep of death what dreams may come
When we have shuffled off this mortal coil, Must give us pause: there's the respect That makes calamity of so long life; For who would bear the whips and scorns of time, The oppressor's wrong, the proud man's contumely, The pangs of despised love, the law's delay, The insolence of office and the spurns That patient merit of the unworthy takes, When he himself might his quietus make With a bare bodkin? who would fardels bear, To grunt and sweat under a weary life, But that the dread of something after death, The undiscover'd country from whose bourn No traveller returns, puzzles the will And makes us rather bear those ills we have Than fly to others that we know not of? Thus conscience does make cowards of us all;"


The idea that drives most Suicides on is that by dying there will be an end to pain, suffering, their current woes, in a word that after life there is nothing. For most right-to-die advocates death is the constant, and life the momentary blip, there is nothing that follows in its train. The existentialist believes that existence precedes essence, and once life is ended, essence is gone. But the Christian knows as Hamlet summed up, that death doesn't end existence, that humans are both soul and body, and that just as there is a heaven for the forgiven there is a real hell for the reprobate, and thus he hesitates to hurry on knowing that there will be an eternal accounting.

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btw I know we see opposites of most issues but just wanted to tell you I think you are wise and offer very good points with no animosity ever detected in your posts.


Thank you Raider. I do sincerely appreciate the fact that you read and think through points and respond rather than firing off knee jerk ad hominems, or simply going with your gut.

Incidentally, and I really mean this, if you do ever detect animus, vitriol, or an unwarranted personal attack, in my posts please confront me on it. I am called to live according to the Golden Rule and observing the command to "Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men." As a sinner, I can and I do fail in this respect, but I hope when I am confronted with that, that I will repent and apologize.

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