I guess I didn't read the argument too closely before I responded. I don't see how tacking the sail could be used to slow down, just for turning.
Lesse, methods that could be used to slow down... I wonder how feasible it would be to energize the structure of the sail to generate a magnetic field to increase the drag profile of the spacecraft? Eg, the kind of field a Bussard ramjet uses, except instead of being used as a funnel, it's more like a drogue chute.
If you're travelling to another star, you can just the star itself to slow you with its light, of course, but for insystem travel, it'd probably be all about clever orbits. I doubt solar sail travel will ever be terribly speedy in-system, but it might be cheap. Heck, Niven had banks of high powered lasers on Mercury (solar powered) that would be used to provide boost to sails. Those lasers proved useful when the Kzin dropped in too. You put the ship into a transfer orbit to your destination, then retract the sail and perform an aerobraking maneuver to slow down.