OK my 2 cents,
If you’re going to buy a handgun for protection, get a revolver. Where there a lot of auto’s out there (I carry a .40) they do take some getting used to. A revolver is a pickup and shoot kind of firearm. Having the pistol in a quick open lock box (a must), your spouse can just open the box and start pulling the trigger. There is no hunting for a safety or charging the pistol, just pick it up and pull the trigger. I know this sounds kind of mean, but that is what we’re talking about.
You have to use the firearm enough to know its quirks. After you get this firearm, remember you MUST teach all people in your home on how to handle it (save any children).
After you decide on who will be allowed to shoot this firearm, they must also fire the gun regularly, at least 1 50 rd box of ammo every 2 months. I know this can be a pain, but were not talking about a jet ski. A NRA sponsored course on handguns is a really good place to start for someone new to handguns.
Find out the local firearms ordnances in your area BEFORE you by the firearm. Check local and state laws concerning owning a handgun and using it for self-protection. God forbid you ever have to use it for self-protection, but if you do, CALL 911 ASAP.
I have been shooting my whole life. I have passed shooting sports to my sons. The last thing I want to do in my life is to shoot one more stage with the Wolverine Rangers SASS club here in Michigan. It was said to me while I was in Texas at a Cowboy Action Shoot by a Texas Ranger, (Yea, a real one). It is better to have it and never need it, than to need it and not have it.
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