1. actually, i can stick stir very well, best way to do it is full rudder, opposite roll, wait for it to spin, then pull right back on the elevators. you can do full 360 degrees spins, and sometimes fly backwards for a second, and get some lucky shots on the guy behind you. (noobs, dont try this, you will stall out and die)
2. i never fall for it, i break up, wait for them to stop, then come down on them again, when they have no e and cant defend at all. easy kills
3. i dont expect anyone to hold still if im shooting at them, infact i do prefer if theyre moving, im better at snapshots and lead pursuit than i am at shooting a still target
stick stirring is gamey, dweeby, and cheating yourself out of learning to fight properly.
stick stirring is a VERY bad tactic. most people will just blast some cannon rounds into a guy stick stirring, which will usually hit a few times, because the guy is moving. keeping your energy and doing some smooth barrel rolls will work FAR better, aswell as something like a cut throttle, side slipping split s (no one will EVER hit a spitfire doing an inverted sideslipping split s)
truth is, if you want to evade, stirring is the worst possible thing to do. if you'd like, id be more than happy to take you to the TA and show you some moves. of course, nothing is better than experience