Originally posted by bj229r
Judging by the possible choices for perspective employment you mentioned, I would suggest you acquire some $@$#@#@ SKILLS that WARRANT decent pay--not a lot of mba's working at Walmart or Burger King--the capitalist system is there for you to make of it what you will--- if that is a problem, move to France, with their free health care, anemic economy, and double-digit unemployment. If you could make $20 an hour at Walmart, WHY bother to LEARN any valuable skills?
I have skills, just can't use them. was making 50-60k a year 3 years ago, in the top of my field, and actually making much less than I could have been but holding back until my kids were raised. 2 years from now my youngest will graduate HS, then my earnings would have climbed 10-20k a year.
even factoring in no raises and only working 1,500-2000 hrs a year I would have been able to retire in my mid 50's at around 125-150k per year in pension and would have been sitting on an annuity worth about $1/3M.
I'm not lazy, I don't go running around with out a plan. I've been working my bellybutton off and taking care of other people since I was in my teens.
the problem is that people get to forgetting how lucky they are. they start to thinking they deserve all of their toys, their nice houses, and soft lives. maybe they do. but there are a lot of people who put in just as much work and planning and don't have those things. but those that do can pretend these people don't exist.
you see the people that it doesn't work out for don't live in your community, you don't talk to them, and it's real easy to pretend they don't exist. that all of those people with nothing, have nothing because they do nothing. some of those people have nothing because they never had anything and they never had a shot.
I hear so many people who have great jobs and nice homes talk of how they are 'self made men' and 'did it on their own. I'd suggest they stop crowing, and thumping their chests for a minute and realize how much help they've had.
did you have a reasonably safe neighborhood? any body shoot at you on your way home?
get enough to eat? medical care? a place to study? could you do your homework at night or did you have to help your family make a living?
did God bless you (or where you lucky if that's how your ideology runs) with a sound mind and body, and the good fortune to be safe from accidents or disease throughout your life, or the ability to fight back from them?
when you became old enough to make your own way did you have an address to put down on an application so you could look for a job? did you have a phone number they could call if they wanted to hire you? how did you get those things before you "made yourself"?
we are the wealthiest nation on earth. there is no reason that anybody should go without basic medical attention, or a fighting shot at an education.
BTW- you should be thankful for all those people who are 'beneath you' if it weren't for them you'd be the lowest POS in this nation.