If the Arabs stopped fighting, if the Arabs stopped plotting, it would mark the beginning of the end of the violence.
If the Israelis stopped fighting, it would mark the beginning of the end of Israel.
Anyone that sees a problem with the grand scheme of Israel's defensive practices(I say grand scheme because yes, mistakes have been made) has adopted, passively or overtly, the opinion that this nation has no place in the modern world. This stance is the new, kinder, gentler anti-semitism, plain and simple.
The more things change, the more they stay the same.