I feel your pain....look at my signature line below!
I've played for 2 1/2 years, and I feel like my gunnery is jsut starting to come around. On the other hand, my 13 year old kid (a veteran of first person shooters) picked up AH and had a 12-13% hit rate his second month.
Since neither you nor I have that gift, we have to work at it. Here's what I did....
1) Set your convergence right. Convergence affects where the bullets come together as a very small group. You'll do devastating damage if the enemy is right in that spot; but outside the spot you need to make mental adjustments to your targeting. Most important, realize that YOUR BULLETS WILL BE HIGHER THAN THE SIGHT SAYS INSIDE THAT RANGE, AND LOWER THAN THAT OUTSIDE THE RANGE.
YOu'll get lots of answers about convergence, but the one that makes most sense to me is to set convergence at the range you get most of your hits. Any other range, and you're reducing the damage your gunnery can do. Why spread out the bullets? Also, at ranges above 400 most guns lose damaging power, so even if you get hits you're robbing yourself of potential damage.
For me, I started at 325, and now I'm about 275. Yes, as I got to be a better shot I moved the convergence IN since thats the range I get my hits now... and now I dont ping them up as much as rip them apart (when I'm "on" at least).
2) Start with the drones, and make sure you're ok with hitting them from pretty mcuh the 6 position. Leave tracers on BRIEFLY, to get a feel for where you're going wrong. Then turn them off again.
Tracers can hypnotize you into watching the flashes, and completely ignoring the gunsight. What you WANT is the ability to judge angle and lead distance BEFORE you pull the trigger, since that ability lets you set up the shot by flying to the right position before shooting.
3) Once you can hit the drones pretty well from behind, start adding variety...cut across the circle and shot at the side angles, Dive in from above, snake back and forth across the path, and even practice flying the circle in the opposite direction.
Each time you try something new, turn on tracers and/or the lead computing gunsight for jsut a little while, long enough to see why you're missing. Then turn them back off so you're forced to "read" the gunsight.
4) All along, keep trying what you've learned in other settings. The TA is great for this, because real people fly better than drones! Ask if its ok to shoot (most vets wont care, but newbs can get freaked out), then practice hitting them. If you need the help, you can target them for the green LCS cross by hitting tab till they're highlighted.
Here are a couple resources to check out:
Here an really good shot gives some advice here's a thread with instructions for turning on the lead computing sight offline