I know what you mean, Eagler. Just the other day I asked my wife the question, "How in the hell did these crotch grabbing foul mouth punks get this stuff into mainstream acceptance?????"
She answered, "The kids like it." And she shrugged her shoulders.
I must agree with her sentiment since you can hear this stuff 24 hours a day on the radio, and you can't really shelter your kids from it. Our kids do have a cd or two that has the F word and some sexual inuendo in it - real ghetto crap, in my opinion. But our kids are doing well in school and they attend church on Sundays, and youth group on Wednsday nights, and they seem well adjusted. So I don't get all bent out of shape about it, or make an issue about it. But I don't like it.
We tell our kids if they want to dye their hair green, or have a Mohawk haircut, have at it. If they want to have a pierced belly button, or 6 holes in their ears, go right ahead, within reason. If they want to wear their clothes inside-out, or their shoes on the wrong feet, or wear black lipstick - enjoy! But we have zero tolerance for drugs and tattoos.
I'm trying really hard not to be an old fart, but it gets harder everyday

Gunthr