Originally posted by Flayed1
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And like I have stated in other threads why if I am trying to help my team win would I want to jump and help the other team win?? Jumping here and there to help even out sides dosn't really work for the win the war types like me...
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[EDIT] Oh and what Knite said.
OK, you want to win the war.
1)
But lets take that night's situation to its extreme.....what if there were NO players on the low side? Would it still have been fun to take all the bases and "win"? What exactly have you won, if there was no opposition? Why is it satisfying, and what is the point of your "team" winning against no one? Be honest -- 40 guys "defeating" 5 guys is an awful lot like the Steelers "defeating" the local Pop Warner team.
If it was fun at all, would it have been as much fun as an evenly matched victory? And if an evenly matched contest is what's most fun, then defending against the odds would be kinda fun too -- provided there was some hope of succeeding.
Lastly, winning against guys who arent playing the same game has to be HOLLOW (if you have any insight at all); so if you reset when everybody's A2A fighting it means....what?
How meaningful is a touchdown some kid "scores" by grabbing a ball and running to the endzone during halftime? No one tried to stop him --shoot, no one else was playing....and if he's proud of doing it, well, with all respect he's an idiot.
2) No matter if your "team" is a wingmate, a squad, or a country, it's important to remember that the guys you're playing against are
PEOPLE. They are here for fun too, they most likely want the same thing you do. Remembering that, and respecting your opponents, is called
SPORTSMANSHIP. No one can demand that from you, but if you choose to play in an overwhelmingly selfish way, disregarding and disrespecting your opponents, don't expect to be respected.
It's overwhelmingly, incredibly simple. Just treat others the way you would want to be treated in their situation. You dont have to stop trying, you dont have to turn in your ammo. Play the game....the way you like...but respect the other players enough to do right by them while you play. And, if you're on the side with 40, and they're on the side with 5.....what would YOU suggest is "doing right by them"?