This topic has been rehashed many times.
Yes in real war things are not balanced. This is a game, the idea that it will be fun for all.
This is not a war simulator, no matter how hard some want to turn it into one.
We all know why uncapturable fields. Both ways have been done.
Server was split because HTC felt that lumping 500 players into one arena was leading to a harsh community.
Large maps spread fights out, way out. Though some would enjoy the smaller engagments, intense fights seemed few and far between.....something it seems was a desired effect.
Personally, I believe online games need some form of side balancing. How much fun would it be to have 3:1 odds and steam roll maps day in and day out. Is it a perfect system, no, but what is? So here are some solutions. If you can't fly your low eny plane, switch countries, switch arena, learn a new plane (there a plenty of good ones), or log off. There are options. Though I guess I can see how it might not be ideal situation for GV's, It is Aces High afterall.....I always thought GV's were mostly there so we would have something to drop bombs on.
I guess the biggest thing, what is preventing you from having fun?